13 Tips For Being a Successful Seller on Poshmark


A few months ago, I celebrated my one year anniversary since I started decluttering my closet and selling my clothing on Poshmark. It was an introvert’s dream of a party filled with solitude, tissue paper, mailing labels, tea, and the “share listing” button.

I’ll never forget the first sale I made on Poshmark. It was late March and I warily listed a turquoise and pink floral print phone case for $7. “This might not sell, but at least I’ll make an effort” I thought. Within an hour of sharing it to the 10pm EST party – CA-CHING! – someone purchased it. I stared at the notification with the dollar symbol and the “Congratulations! ___ just sold to…” message on my phone and jumped up and down in my living room from excitement. I had so much stuff I could barely close my closet doors; the clothing rod looked more like a “U” than a straight line from the weight of it all.

Poshmark has become the perfect place to clear out all the shirts, dresses, shoes, and handbags that I’ve gathered over the years, which have been taking up more space than I have to offer. Now on the platform for a little over a year, I’ve learned a few things along the way that may help you have a positive selling experience.  I hope you find these tips useful, and if you’ve had success with selling on Poshmark by implementing other methods,  please leave them in the comments!

13 Tips For Being a Successful Seller on Poshmark

1.Share, share, share – both your listings and other people’s listings. This will increase your closet’s exposure and increase the likelihood that other people will share your listings to their followers as well. I find it particularly useful to share the the items that have been most recently shared within parties, since the sellers are online and actively sharing listings.

2. Participate in parties! I can’t emphasize this point enough. Share your listings to every party that you can – particularly the 10pm EST (7pm PT) parties, since they see the most traffic and are open to all listing categories. I sold that cell phone case within an hour of sharing it to my first 10pm EST party.

3. Reach out to party hosts and ask if they would look at your closet for a host pick. Think of the host picks section like the items behind the glass case in a store. The main area sees millions of listings each night, but the host pick area is much smaller. If your item is selected as a host pick, more eyes are likely to see it (and hopefully buy it!).

4. Offer bundle discounts. This will make the cost of shipping more reasonable since the buyer will be purchasing several items for the same shipping price of one item – plus you’ll be clearing out your closet and watching that redeemable balance go up!

5. If your prices are flexible, let people know that you’re open to offers by including that in the item description, or as a separate “not for sale” banner listing. If people try to negotiate in the comments, I recommend asking them to make an offer that way others can’t see how low you’re willing to go on an item – especially if they don’t end up purchasing it after the discussion.

6. Give style tips in the item’s description box. Sometimes people see an item in your closet that they love, but they aren’t sure how to wear it, so they hold off an making an offer or purching it. Offer a few outfit ideas and pairing suggestions to give buyers hints for how it can be worn. I had success with this when several buyers commented that they loved an item I had in my closet, but they weren’t sure if it matched with anything they had. With a few color and style suggestions, it resulted in a sale.

7. Take well-lit pictures and use the brightening tool in a photo editing app (but don’t overdo it – keep it true to how it looks in real life). Get creative with your backdrop and layout, while still showing the item so it photographs exactly how it looks in person. Ask yourself, if you were the buyer and you saw this listing, would you be tempted to buy it? In looking at my items that have sold, most of them are against a plain white wall or white shag rug, since they allow the item to stand out on its own. Occasionally I will include complementary accessories or props to make the cover photo pop even more.

8. List a bunch of items for sale. Poshmark recommends a minimum of ten, I believe, but the more you list the merrier. It makes your closet look legitimate and increases the likelihood that someone will see something of yours that they like and want to buy.

9. Be nice and respectful to people. This should go without saying, but you are the voice of your closet. Whether you’re like me and you’re using Poshmark as a way to declutter your closet, or you’d like to turn your closet into a wholesale boutique, it’s so important to treat people with courtesy and respect. Answer questions, respond as soon as you can, and provide accurate information. Remember that people are at the heart of all business.

10. Be honest about the condition of the clothing you’re selling. Check everything over for rips, stains, and other damages and show clear pictures and written details in the listing description. Better to be up front so the buyer knows exactly what they’re getting than to have the buyer receive it damaged and return it.

11. Use accurate and descriptive keywords to describe your items so they show up in searches. For example, if you have a flowy top with flowers for sale, you might want to use the words boho, floral, and festival in your description since people are likely to use those words when they’re searching for clothing. Ask yourself – what style terms and descriptive words are popular right now? How does this item fit into what people are searching for?

12. Make sure your closet is compliant. Poshmark has a list of items they allow and don’t allow, which you can find in the FAQ section of their website. They currently allow clothing and accessories for men, women, and children. If you have non-compliant listings (such as liquids, household items, books, and electronics, to name a few) Poshmark may remove the listings or suspend the account. Similarly, party hosts are advised to only select host picks from compliant closets, and you will need to show that your closet is compliant in order to be a suggested user (which gains you a lot of exposure on the website). I’d recommend sticking within Poshmark’s guidelines to have the best possible experience on the site, and listing all other items on websites such as Craigslist, Depop, or eBay, to name a few.

13. Apply to Poshmark’s Suggested User program! If you’ve been part of the community for at least three months, have had at least three successful transactions, have at least 25 items for sale, are social (sharing!), and have clear and creative cover shots, you may want to contact Poshmark and ask to be considered for their Suggested Users program. It may take them a few months to review your closet for consideration, but if they accept you, it’s very exciting to receive the e-mail that says “Congrats! You’re a Poshmark Suggested User!” From there, you can create a banner for your closet that states that you’re a suggested user, which may instill more confidence in buyers who are shopping your closet, and will also help your closet gain exposure amongst Poshmark users.

Did you find any of these tips helpful? What are some helpful tips you have picked up that I didn’t include in this post?

Best of luck and happy Poshing!


On The Importance of Setting Goals for Your Money

All my life I’ve been a spender. Whether it was money gifted to me on special occasions, money I earned by sweating my teenage summer away at a day camp, or in recent years, money I’ve earned by working full time – my income hasn’t typically stretched as far as I’d like it to. Payday was a great excuse to go thrift shopping, weekends were spent perusing the latest fast fashion, and things that looked mediocre on the rack gained appeal simply because they were available and I could buy them.

In recent years, I went shopping because suddenly, living in my own space, I knew I could buy what I wanted without it being thrown away behind my back. Shopping became synonymous with freedom and control. In earlier years, shopping was a way to recharge after a busy week at school, an quick confidence boost on a hanger, and an adrenaline rush. It was a way to socialize with my friends, and it is a common interest between my mom and I when we hang out.

But also, shopping is spending. Spending is not saving. Not saving means fewer funds for bigger and more enriching purchases, such as a home or a vacation, for an emergency fund, and for financial security. When I was spending money like water, I wasn’t thinking about its implications and what letting that money go on trivial things meant in the long term. Looking back at the percentage of my income I have traded for garments that I don’t like or wear anymore and items that collect dust in my apartment fills me with such a swell of “what if?”

What if I had saved that money? What if it had always been my nature to be more of a saver than a spender? Would I have enough to put a down payment on a home? Would I be able to take several weeks off to travel around Europe the way I would love to? Maybe. I definitely would’ve been several thousand dollars closer than I am now, if everything else had stayed the same.

This brings me to the purpose of this blog post: it’s important to have a goal in mind for your money in order to save it rather than spend it. If you feel like money burns a hole in your pocket (like it has with me), if you feel like the week passes and you have no idea where your money went, or if you look into your bank account and see tumbleweeds instead of numbers, you may not be budgeting and planning as well as you could be. That’s okay though – we all have to start somewhere. Maybe you want to get out of debt, or take a vacation. Perhaps you’d like to purchase a home, or save for school. Or maybe you’re just sick of scrounging until the next paycheck comes in, and you’d like to have greater financial security in your day to day life. Having a goal for your money and sticking to it can help turn these dreams and goals into actions and plans.

My goal is to buy an apartment in the city. Upon doing research, I learned that you don’t have to be a millionaire, a doctor, or earn huge sums on money in order to attain this goal. Not every apartment costs seven figures, and there are many that sit below $400,000. This is hardly chump change, but it’s also not as unattainable as the million dollar apartments that are emblazoned on billboards, spammed in emails, and the first to appear on apartment search engine results. This is encouraging because even though it seems out of reach now, it’s attainable enough to inspire me to keep a closer watch on my unnecessary spending, and maybe skip the thrift shops, the trinkets, and the outfits I’d be tired of in a month.

What are your goals for your money?

Happiness Is… (A Poem)

Happiness is purple lipstick, and a black Easter hat with a pink feather along the brim

and reading Judith Viorst in the midst of uncertainty 

and pressing my face into my boyfriend’s cheeks

and this bejeweled candelabra from the Halloween section that decorates the dining table

and being an Aquarius

and having aqua blue dining chairs, turquoise mirrors, and pink walls, because fuck a neutral color palette

and Sunday morning for coffee and quiet

and no roaches in the New York apartment

and smelling the Christmas pine tree candle

and an electric bill that reads “$27” – and there were no sacrifices, it was just winter

and a butter dish with silly farm animals painted on it for two dollars at the Goodwill

and not fainting over the credit card bill

and pink flowers on a turquoise background

and making a sale on Poshmark

and decluttering this godforsaken space

and how good 2008 really was, if only I hadn’t been so miserable

and the unobstructed night sky

and laughing until three in the morning 

and the fake pink flowers that look real and require no effort on my desk

and the greeting card that says “today is a brand-new day… don’t F it up”

and, yes, even shopping with my mother

and strawberry cream cheese

and cute shit at the $.99 store

and not buying said cute shit, but saving the money

and listening to my favorite personal finance podcast on the way to work

and feeling inspired 

and having time and energy to engage with the inspiration 

and sparrows as they hop around

and dog butts

and cat faces

and cat butts




I Need Your Input!

Hi everyone!

I need your input. You may have noticed that I’ve been absent from this blog for several months now, and I’ve explained in a previous entry or two what’s been capturing my attention in my free time lately: fashion and selling clothing online (particularly via Poshmark). Going a step further, I’ve been thinking about several themes quite often lately, which include style, personal finance (in a fun way), and creating a space and life to be joyous in.

This leads me to you, and this blog entry.

I’d like to shake up this blog a bit. This started as a book blog, and then evolved to include writing, too. Although both reading and writing are still very important aspects of my life, there’s so much more I would love to write about that would keep me coming back and remaining active in blog-land. Specifically, I’d like to write more about personal finance (as I can relate to it as a 20-something working to get ahead in an expensive city on a budget), fashion (especially thrift shopping and personal style) and what I’m learning and creating in my first apartment (which I’ve been writing and photographing for almost a year now in this blog).

I’d still like to write about the books I read and my tips and suggestions for writing, as I’ve been doing. The only adjustment I’d like to make is the frequency of these posts so they better reflect what’s going on in my life. I’m thinking 25% books and writing, 25% budgeting, 25% fashion, and 25% apartment life.

How does this sound to you? Let me know in the comments section! I’m ready to hit the ground running. 🙂


Book Titles For Book Worms With Bug Infested Homes (A Pun-Filled Parody)

Ever feel that you’ve been called a book worm one too many times and, as a result, bugs think it’s open season to come live in your apartment – you know, since they’d be living among their own wormy kind? If so, this entry is for you. Since I’ve been trying to obliterate my apartment of bugs to little avail, I’ve renamed and pun-ified a bunch of well-known book titles to suit the buggy situation – partly because it seemed like an original idea, but mainly to entertain myself during this unsettling experience. So sit back and get ready to squirm (if not from the thought of bugs, then definitely from how cheesy some of these titles are).

Book Titles For Book Worms Who Live In Bug-Infested Homes

For Renters Who Have Considered Pesticides/When the Combat Isn’t Enough (For Colored Girls Who Have Considered Suicide/When the Rainbow is Enuf)

The Catcher and the Fly (The Catcher and the Rye)

NorthANTger Trappy (Northanger Abbey)

American Psychroach (American Psycho)

The Mite Stunner (The Kite Runner)

The Fly Who Came In From the Cold (The Spy Who Came In From the Cold)

Cried and Sick-Of-This (Pride and Prejudice)

Defeat, Prey, Lovebug (Eat, Pray, Love)

Bugs Fly-eth on the Renter’s Front (All’s Quiet on the Western Front)

Infinite Pest (Infinite Jest)

Impale With Fire (Pale Fire)

The Horde of the Stings (The Lord of the Rings)

To Cull a Mocking Herd (To Kill a Mockingbird)

Hovering Bites (Wuthering Heights)

The Caulk In Our Jars (The Fault In Our Stars)

Foam-eo in Kitchenette (Romeo and Juliet) 

Reauch (Maus)

The Jerks Are Eating the Wallpaper (The Perks of Being A Wallflower)

A Flea Grows In Cushion (A Tree Grows In Brooklyn)

Me Call Landlord One Day (Me Talk Pretty One Day)

What bug-titled books infest your shelves?

The Slumpiest of Reading Slumps

Unless you’re a supernatural wizard, if you’re an avid reader then  you’ve probably gone through a reading slump at some point in your life. It’s a time when no force in nature can keep your brain focused on the story in front of you. Books become lumps of paper that collect dust, and anything written beyond page two catches a chill from abandonment. There are a handful of reasons why people experience reading slumps. Mine can be traced back to one single event.

It was a cold and rainy night. I was indoors, ignoring the movie that was playing on the television and instead browsing through the App store on my phone when I encountered the beast: Poshmark. It’s the app that allows women to clear out their closets by selling their unwanted clothes and accessories to other women all over the United States. It looks like Instagram, requires very little personal information, and is as easy as snapping a couple of pictures, writing a brief description, naming a price, and then BOOM! You’re in business.

And so I’ve been in business (if you could call it that) and away from reading for approximately two months now. Two months without a single page being turned on my account, nor a chapter consumed, nor a title to add to my list of books completed. I would like to get back into reading again, though, since I’ve been feeling the discomfort of its absence from my life. My bookcase has been looking at me longingly, and I’ve been making eyes at it in return. Where to begin? I’m not sure yet, but I wanted to tell you why my blog has been a tumbleweed zone lately.

More to come soon!

10 Dos and Don’ts When Moving Into Your First Apartment


You’ve inked your name on the lease and those golden keys are finally in your hands. Signed, sealed, delivered – you have a home! Now what? As someone who tends to learn life’s lessons the hard way, I’m compiling a list of lessons I’ve learned in the first few months of renting my first apartment. On its best day, your apartment will be your oasis where your decor looks like a Pinterest-y dreamscape and you wake up feeling like Snow White in a magical forest. On its worst day, your apartment will be that dreaded slab of concrete or dry wall where half of your stuff is in shambles and the other half can only be mentioned when paired with curse words, grumbling, and looks of psychotic rage. And so to save you some time, money, and strange looks from people around you, here are:

10 Dos and Don’ts When Moving Into Your First Apartment
(a.k.a – Lessons Learned the Hard Way)

Do: Plan your move as far ahead in advance as possible and save up for deposits, security fees, moving expenses, and furniture.
Don’t: Wait to start your moving fund until the week before your move-in date so you’re left scouring the streets for fallen dollar bills. Once the moving fees start rolling in it’ll feel like you’ve pulled the plug on your bank account and are watching your funds gurgle down the drain. Truthfully, it’ll probably feel like this regardless of when you start saving, but the goal is to create as much of a financial cushion as possible so it’s less painful to spend several hundred to several thousand dollars on moving expenses.

Do: Put thought into how you want your apartment to look. As I had discussed in my previous blog entry, be sure to brainstorm color schemes, themes, styles, and pieces of furniture you will want in your new home.
Don’t: Rush into big and costly (or cheap-o) decisions just to get your apartment set up as quickly as possible. Initially, this is what I did, and I’ve  regretted many of my oatmeal-colored decisions afterwards. Respect your time and money and give thought to what you want to buy and bring home with you.

Do: Be true to your style and aesthetic when decorating or designing your new home. Let your freak flag fly flamboyantly, or keep it ironed and pressed neatly inside your drawer – whichever suits you better.
Don’t: Feel as though you need to follow every white-furnished-and-walled, earthy-accented trend you see on Pinterest or Tumblr, unless you truly want to. If that’s your aesthetic then by all means go for it, but don’t be afraid to branch out and live in an apartment that reflects who you are. Even though we are living in the age of sharing everything with everyone, you are still allowed to create a space that only you would be happy to live in.

Do: Splurge on quality items that you want to keep for years to come, such as your mattress, bed, and sofa.
Don’t: Think that you need to spend top dollar on home accessories and accents in order to have nice things or to get the look you want to achieve (unless you’re searching for antiques – those can be more difficult to find at lower prices). You can find ways to save on smaller accoutrements by hitting up your local thrift shops and outlet stores, getting DIY-crafty, and letting friends and family know you’re on the hunt for decor.

Do: Visit brick and mortar furniture stores when buying major pieces, such as dining sets, beds, large area rugs, etc. By doing this, you will know how the item looks in person and how it’s made before spending your money.
Don’t: Buy furniture online before reading the company’s return policy. I have recently purchased approximately three pieces of furniture from online furniture stores and have either had to return, exchange, or work with terrible  customer service for each of these  three items due to damages, defects, poor quality, or the item not arriving as shown in the picture or description. Save yourself the time, money, and frustration – shop in person!

Do: Have a purge-fest before you make the big move to avoid incurring unnecessary moving costs and to make space in your new apartment.
Don’t: Half-ass the purge and spend the next few months living among boxes of things you’ll end up selling, donating, or getting rid of anyway. Again, respect your time, money, and back muscles.

Do: Create and stick to a budget! This should probably be the first tip on the list, but I’m assuming you’re probably well-aware of this if you’re apartment hunting or moving in to your first place.
Don’t: Spend money like it’s going out of style and as a result have nothing left to pay your bills. Those shoes may be cute and those books may be calling your name, but knowing that you can maintain a roof over your head is a much better feeling. It provides a basic sense of security, which is a fundamental human need. I’m planning to write a blog entry about personal budgeting at a later date because it’s a topic I’m highly interested in and have had personal experience doing, but in short – savings and bills first, fun and frivolous purchases later**.
**Side note – I understand that this may be difficult to adhere to at first. You’re looking at a girl who signed the lease on her first apartment and then promptly purchased a $32 eye shadow (yes, one lone eye shadow) to celebrate. It’s possible, though, and if you put your mind to it, you can do it.

Do: Set deadlines for small and large tasks, such as painting, setting up your book cases, laying down kitchen tiles, etc.
Don’t: Settle for “later” or “maybe next month” because, as I’m sure you already know, that day can take forever to come and slowly creep to the bottom of your to-do list. Set definite dates, make a list of everything you will need to complete each task, and create a timeline and/or schedule to tackle each task. You’ll thank yourself once you see your home come together and the mountain of boxes shrink.

Do: Ask your landlord or property manager questions before signing the lease! How is the roach and vermin situation? Do the heat and hot water work properly? Are there any leaks or concerns you should be aware of? And of course, keep your eyes open and report issues as soon you discover them.
Don’t: Assume that issues with the apartment will work themselves out or be disclosed without prompting. Landlords and property managers want to rent out their apartments as quickly as possible, so it’s up to you to be sure it’s in a condition you’re comfortable living in.

Do: Get a sense of the neighborhood you’ll be living in beforehand. Do you feel safe, comfortable, and at home in the environment? Does it have the amenities you need, such as a local grocery store if you don’t have a car? Comfort is key! There’s nothing quite like coming home and feeling at ease when you get to your neighborhood.
Don’t: Pick an apartment just based on the apartment unit itself. Yes, it may be spacious, beautiful, and better than you had imagined for the price, but remember the other factors you’ll be encountering in addition to the apartment. There are your neighbors, the surrounding neighborhood, transit options, building amenities, and crime rates, just to name a few. These factors will influence whether you will have a quality of life versus a quality of strife – and me thinks you’ll want the former!

Are you looking to move into your first apartment? Have you already moved into your first home and have tips to share? Leave your responses in the comments section below! 🙂